for the broken hearted

lately i realise i have started to become a relationship adviser to some of my close friends...and when i take a step back and look at it...its such a laugh..of all people, me? giving love advises? someone has to come n slap some senses into me...i should not even be listening let alone give advises...gosh i m so worried i would just ruin people's relationships...:(

im not spiteful..bt i seem to be mixing up my past relationship with my friends' current situation..and this is not only making me reminise my past, its just plain wrong to assume tat what my friends go through is similar to what i went through...

in truth, its not even slightly the same.

what i went through was a 10 month lie...what others went through were real emotions..a relationship that actually mattered to them...and for me to judge that based on what i experience is in fact a real joke.

so...to my friends who recently had your hearts broken:

i suck at relationships..i really do..or maybe i just have not found the right one..(so they tell me)
and what u guys went through was monumental...was an unforgetable experience that just took a wrong turn..dont blame yourselves that this is happening..just be thankful that you were once happy.

im in no place to judge or to give advises to your conditions..and i feel so helpless coz i feel that its like dejavu but yet its totally different...

what i can offer u guys is a listener...i cnt promise tat i would not get emotional after listening, but i can promise that you would have someone by you at these hard times..

of course i dont wish that things would end...but then if it does..then im pretty sure God decided that that person isn't fit enough to be your soulmate and you guys should just move on.

stay happy my friends...heart breaks are not the end of the world if you can learn from it.

xoxo
Me