for the broken hearted

lately i realise i have started to become a relationship adviser to some of my close friends...and when i take a step back and look at it...its such a laugh..of all people, me? giving love advises? someone has to come n slap some senses into me...i should not even be listening let alone give advises...gosh i m so worried i would just ruin people's relationships...:(

im not spiteful..bt i seem to be mixing up my past relationship with my friends' current situation..and this is not only making me reminise my past, its just plain wrong to assume tat what my friends go through is similar to what i went through...

in truth, its not even slightly the same.

what i went through was a 10 month lie...what others went through were real emotions..a relationship that actually mattered to them...and for me to judge that based on what i experience is in fact a real joke.

so...to my friends who recently had your hearts broken:

i suck at relationships..i really do..or maybe i just have not found the right one..(so they tell me)
and what u guys went through was monumental...was an unforgetable experience that just took a wrong turn..dont blame yourselves that this is happening..just be thankful that you were once happy.

im in no place to judge or to give advises to your conditions..and i feel so helpless coz i feel that its like dejavu but yet its totally different...

what i can offer u guys is a listener...i cnt promise tat i would not get emotional after listening, but i can promise that you would have someone by you at these hard times..

of course i dont wish that things would end...but then if it does..then im pretty sure God decided that that person isn't fit enough to be your soulmate and you guys should just move on.

stay happy my friends...heart breaks are not the end of the world if you can learn from it.

xoxo
Me

mad sexy cool

baby, oh yeah
baby, oh yeah

You don't ever bring no drama to the game
and my drama don't be scaring you away
you dont ever talk to much
exactly just enough
you know how and when and where and what to say

it aint like i gotta tell you your so fine (your so fine)
you been gettin complements since you was nine (damn)
its like your perfect (...)
a diamond in the rough
I knows you give me nothin else but love (love)

You are such a mad sexy cool girl
how does someone turn into you girl
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl, and i love you that way
baby, oohhhhh


you be ruling with a certain shade of cool (shade of cool)
i dont know no body half as fresh as you
i be checkin your behaviour
oh baby you got so much flavour
sometimes i wanna call you juicy fruit (juicy)

it aint like i gotta tell you your a star (your a star)
you be shining and be sparkling in the dark
girl you so perfect (...)
you my dimond in the rough
i know you give me nothin else but love


You are such a mad sexy cool girl
how does someone turn into you girl
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl, and i love you the same

(baby) how does someone
so beautiful
so approachable
none so adourable
(baby) guess your my kinda wonderful
my dream come true

You are such a mad sexy cool girl (sexy cool girl)
how does someone turn into you girl (into you girl)
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl

You are such a mad sexy cool girl (ohh baby yes you are)
how does someone turn into you girl (turn into you)
how do you explain
what you do
what you say
how you be
how you play (ooohh)
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same
how you give
never hate
and you dont ever change (never change)
be consistantly that way
your a mad sexy cool girl
(Your a mad sexy cool girl)

baby *fade out*
how does someone turn into you girl
how do you explain
what you do
how you be
how you play
how you love
everyday
how your constantly the same